You expect too much and when it gets uncomfortable, you say it’s unhealthy. Just because you feel uncomfortable doesn’t mean it’s unhealthy. Have you communicate it clearly that people understand what you mean? Or you just ignore people and expect them to understand?
In any relationship it takes more than 1 person to make the relationship turn out the way it is. If it’s unhealthy, you play a role in making it that way, yet what you do is get rid of the other person so easily from the equation.
Easy way out.